purpose.

January 30th, 2010

it’s been quite awhile since she has last posted.

she has been pretty caught up with work but she is very happy. she is happy about the progress with how her goals shaped up so far.

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having a goal/goals is separate of having a purpose in life. because you need to first create a purpose in life so to know what goals are you heading towards in life.

but what exactly will bring a person to have a purpose in life?

the answer lies within: are you ready to live for yourself? (note: that is “live FOR yourself”)

when we look back in our lives, has it ever dawn on you or do you ever realised that almost half of our lives we lived for others?

disagree? well, we’ll see…

since young till we are able going into adulthood, didn’t we live with an expectation from our parents? (to get good grades and go to a good uni? no?)

then the expectation has some what mutated into a social responsibility that, “it’s time to get married”… “it’s time to have kids”

if you can give yourself a minute to ask yourself honestly this question:

“Are you doing it because it’s time for us humans to do so, OR what it my purpose and my passion to do so?”

then as the social expectations of you have been fulfilled, you are trapped with an expectation to fulfill your responsibilities to provide and groom the offsprings.

so, couple of years ago, she decided to live for herself to pursue what was taken away from her as she woke up one day realising, she has not been living with a purpose.

as she went on a journey to define a purpose for herself. she found it. having a purpose made her feel stronger and becoming a better person.

it’s never a mistake to take care of yourself first, it is then you are in better shape to take care of others.

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yet 90% of the souls out there have a misconception about ‘living for yourself’

it is not about living alone physically

it is not about loneliness

it is about finding who you really are

to have eyes for the bigger picture of what ‘relationships’ really mean

what relationships do we want in life?

its about building a relationship with yourself so that we can have a bigger view about life

it is about having a connection with yourself

when you understand the life purpose, you will fly

you will never feel alone

you will feel very happy within

you will feel strength in many things you want to achieve

you will feel strength to understand that perhaps certain things has it time and place

you take care of your physical self and you take care of your soul

most importantly you respect yourself

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as she understood the life purpose she had for herself

she could see that so many beautiful things can happen

she can bring so many beautiful things to many people in her life

her life purpose is to be around people and build wonderful things around them

this purpose had made her feel stronger to build bigger goals in her life

this purpose does made her understand more about having a millionaire mindset.

this purpose set her free.

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To anyone who is reading this right now, there’s so much more to having a purpose life… she hopes this post will inspire some souls out there.

OM~